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non judgement
Without Fear
Flying Burning Ships Alliance
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Posted - 2012.04.20 13:49:00 -
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OP is so cool.
We should all go to OP's blog and read it every day. So much excellent stuff from OP. Just WOW!!! I don't judge, I just say it how it is.
*waits for wallet to blink*
PS hatred towards EVE Uni is completely Okay!! Okay!?!? |
non judgement
Without Fear
Flying Burning Ships Alliance
765
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Posted - 2012.04.20 15:24:00 -
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Bane Necran wrote:Ranger 1 wrote:I try to avoid judging others, although in reality that is impossible to do. In my case at least, i learned so much about these people because someone i thought was a friend in real life, completely blind sided me. I always knew there was something about him that was a little off, but i never really thought about it until it was too late. And i don't mean he did anything minor. This guy stalked me and vandalized my property for 10 years during the night, and during the day was out there convincing people i was a child molester. The reason i'm so outspoken on the issue is because unless you're one of these people yourself, you just don't think anyone is capable of doing that, and even if you do, the last person you expect is the guy pretending to be your friend. I hope to stop someone else from learning about them the hard way. But on the bright side of things i'm now a psychopaths worst nightmare. I know them better than they know themselves.  Not many people are like that in real life. If they are normal most the time but only crazy sometimes then aren't they more likely to be sociopaths? Most people can figure out if someone is a psychopath without been told.
The guy needs help you don't have to go out of your way to tell everyone that he's a sociopath/psychopath. Telling everyone that someone else is a crazy bastard isn't going to help at all. You just push them on to continue or be worse. If you really want to help everyone, you'd help them to be normal, so they don't do the same thing to others. Telling everyone that they should be careful about this person will only make things worse if they find out about it or if they figure that everyone is treating them strangely.
Be careful about the road you're travelling down. The cycle of suffering should be stopped not pushed forward. |
non judgement
Without Fear
Flying Burning Ships Alliance
765
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Posted - 2012.04.20 15:43:00 -
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Bane Necran wrote:non judgement wrote:Most people can figure out if someone is a psychopath without been told. This is what i used to think, too, from watching movies. Quote:Telling everyone that someone else is a crazy bastard isn't going to help at all. I never really did that. Just cut my ties with everyone who believed any of his bullshit, instead of arguing with them. I consider him still being in their lives suitable punishment for their ignorance, and anyone who would believe that crap about me wasn't my friend in the first place, anyway. Yeah. I think I changed my mind just then about being able to tell the difference between a psychopath and a sociopath, after reading a bit more about it in wikipedia.
I complete agree with what you did. I've had problems with these kind of things as well. I couldn't say anything to make things better. It just seemed like it was a mess no matter what I said or did. |
non judgement
Without Fear
Flying Burning Ships Alliance
765
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Posted - 2012.04.21 07:52:00 -
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Everyone is an expert on sociopaths these days. It's the latest label to place on people and just a huge generalisation. There are levels to how depressed people are and the same thing goes for these sorts of problems. Not everyone you label as a sociopath is 100% sociopath at the extreme end. They have different levels between normal to complete sociopath. It isn't such a cut and dry problem and you shouldn't treat them all as being the same. There are different reasons that people come to be the way they are and it'd be silly to throw them all in the same basket.
Also on the people who are like this in game and how do you know if they're like that out of game and does it mean they're more likely to be sociopaths later on. It's like people who can't separate what happens in a movie from real life. How many people do you see who are like that when it comes movies? |
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